Human 2 Human Project

Conversation Starters

Because sometimes the hardest part is knowing where to begin.

For Family Moments

• What’s one memory from your childhood you wish more people knew about?

• What’s something small that always makes you feel loved?

• What’s a family tradition you want to pass down, or let go of?

• When do you feel most at peace at home?

• What’s something you’ve never said, but always felt?

For Friends

• What’s something you’ve been thinking about a lot lately?

• What does real friendship mean to you right now?

• What’s a moment in your life that shaped who you are today?

• What do you need more of these days, and what do you wish you had less of?

• When’s the last time you felt truly seen?

For People You Disagree With

• Can you tell me more about how you came to feel that way?

• What’s something you feel people often misunderstand about you?

• What values are most important to you, and where did they come from?

• What’s one thing you wish people on “the other side” could understand?

• What do you think we actually have in common?

For Healing & Reconnecting

• What part of our story still feels unresolved to you?

• What do you miss about how things used to be?

• What would moving forward look like for you?

• What’s one thing I could do to rebuild trust?

• What do you wish I understood better?

For Self-Reflection (if you’re lighting the candle alone)

• What emotion have I been avoiding lately?

• Who do I need to forgive, or ask forgiveness from?

• What do I want to let go of this week?

• Where am I craving connection the most?

• What would it look like to be fully present in my own life?